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If I was being honest with the title of this post, I probably would have called it something like “How to write a good first message according to what Single Steve thinks is a good first message, but I’m not really sure you should take my advice because I rarely get responses to my messages”.
So, as you can see, it doesn’t really have the same ring, or appeal to someone searching on how to write a good first message for online dating.
Don’t try and be funny I’ve seen SO MANY messages from my female friends of guys trying to be sarcastic or use humor in their messages, but since their idiot cavemen it comes off as rude, cynical or awkward.
” Objective 3: Start a conversation The goal is for her to respond back to you right?
Well in order for that to happen, you have to ask her questions.
Like I see what they were “trying” to say in their messages, but since they don’t know how to write it just came off as rude.
If you are able to convey your humor in writing (LIKE ME), then by all means, go for it, but it’s probably safe to say since she’s never met you, conveying funny in messages may be difficult.
I don’t know if I’m exactly qualified to do this, because my response rate is about 15%, but I consider myself above average emotional intelligence and understand, at least in theory, what women would like in first message. And like anything in my life, I probably approach sending messages on online with a little too much “engineering”.